In this regard, the expert states that “jealousy is present from childhood, for example, when the mother is expecting a second child and eldest son feels left out either, with the brothers at the time that a parent pays more attention another, also given to labor successes of the couple and so on as they pass the experiences of each person. “
However, this feature is accentuated in romantic relationships and at this stage there is “fear of feeling that your partner prefers one or the other,” says the expert.
In this situation, jealousy come to cause some kind of problems as an annoyance or a passing argument between the couple However, sooner or later the differences are resolved and there are no major problems.
Even the interviewee continues: “in love relationships are natural normal jealousy. The couple likes to feel unique, loved, loved and valued and when it does so, he or she will notice that the other has great interest, therefore normal jealousy get to become a kind of joy. “
Shterenberg Uribe says that jealousy is pathological or unhealthy because the sufferer is excessively worried intensification the beloved partner. That is, they are not as healthy and suitable property but frustrating aspects become laden with anguish and unhappiness.
Thus, people with this disease or abnormal behavior reported feelings of insecurity, have excessive fear of replacement and betrayal by the couple. Also, constantly compared to the “umpire” and regularly imagine evil unfounded suspicions, referred specialist PMS.
Thus the most common phrases that say they are in this condition are: “If you leave me I will kill you”, “? To whom view”, “? Whither go”, “? Who went out” and “Why did it take so long?”, and many more. Usually, those who are made manifest blackmailers and insults, anger and, in severe cases even blows.
Moreover, the couple also damaged mentally but physically no longer lives happily as they continually “sick” the question for their acts, hazing brawling what should or should not do, so it feels completely suffocated however, sometimes do not understand or understand why that scenario.