Natural Response of the Reproductive system

Natural Response of the Reproductive systemWake up with signs of moisture on the underwear or the bed sheets is not a cause for shame or alarm simply because it is a natural response of the reproductive system called nocturnal emission or wet dreams.

The wet dream occurs during sleep, in the “REM”, one of the stages of sleep erotic fantasies are producing pleasure and occasionally men culminate in ejaculation and orgasm in women. Both genders are vulnerable to this kind of night but with higher percentage in the first event. In case the male erotic dreams are like a body mechanism to expel seminal fluid overload and thus keep the substance in good reproductive status.

Although the reasons for erotic dreams as such is not known, it might have biological implications such as:

  • Detecting the brain does about tensions in the genitals caused by long periods of abstinence.
  • Frustrated or unsatisfied sex.
  • Moments later fantasy without sexual activity.
  • Period of ovulation in women.

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Problems in the Relationship of Love and Habit

Problems in the Relationship of Love and HabitIn some cases strengthens the relationship, but in other routine wear and leads to the rupture. It happens that at some point come to think if the feeling that holds them together is love or habit, a normal confusion even in the most stable couples.

The reasons vary to think about it, is suddenly the appearance of “special someone” or a sense of loneliness or boredom still in each others company. Do not rush to make decisions better analyze the situation clearly, in complete calm, without anger or depression involved in the final verdict.

Let’s start by saying that the habit is synonymous with routine, a very dangerous factor in love. When the mystery, surprise, missing details, petting, pretty words and is only the commitment of being or having sex without interest through than just meet the couple, then at that point you are lost You can talk about usual.

On the other hand, being in love is not feeling tickle in the stomach every time they meet, because that occurs in the first few months of the relationship, then they are other details that keep love alive. Continue reading “Problems in the Relationship of Love and Habit”

Love Involves Hard Work

Love Involves Hard WorkThe courtship and marriage go through different stages where the most beautiful usually always be falling in love, everything is perfect and there are no fights.

But it’s as time passes when conflicts begin and everything comes to an end. That is when the question of what went wrong or why the relationships are dying arises.

According to Terri Orbuch, a clinical psychologist at the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan, when you think that a relationship should be a certain way, but on the day it is not, it starts to generate a lot of frustration that eventually destroy the couple.

Love involves hard work

When communication begins to fracture, other issues that were less obvious start to turn into real problems. Here are some things that can kill any relationship.

1. Review. After many years of studies, psychology professor at the University of Washington, John Gottman says that while we all have faults when they become repeated criticism affect self-esteem of the person which will make the couple no longer wants.

2. Contempt. Gottman says that when a person externalizes sarcasm, insults or bad look to your partner is causing it to feel worthless, even affecting their health; nobody wants a relationship, which is why even get divorce. Continue reading “Love Involves Hard Work”

The importance of Humor in a Relationship

The importance of Humor in a RelationshipThe sympathy and good humor are attractive personality and powerful way of socializing people. Those who know use it have better relationships, optimal health and peace of mind.

In the amorous sphere humor also plays a very important role. According to research, the shared laughter generates intense magnetism between two people, when the mood is the main ingredient in relation to the problems may become a little more bearable and less tragic solution.

When lovers laugh together are happier and better teammates

If we make a survey asking men and women features that have their ideal partner, the basic element of suggestion would be good humor. A predictable response when you take into account the need of every human being to feel full in the company of another person. Therefore, laughter is considered the shortest distance between individuals and linking while reducing the tensions between them.

We know that in a world of personalities as diverse and not all have the “spark” of good humor; however it is clear that he is unhappy who spends the whole day laughing but those who view life positively and are able to infect others with enthusiasm.

Keeping Feelings of the Couple to Keep Love

Keeping Feelings of the Couple to Keep LoveIn some cases strengthens the relationship, but in other routine wear and leads to the rupture. It happens that at some point come to think if the feeling that holds them together is love or habit, a normal confusion even in the most stable couples.

The reasons vary to think about it, is suddenly the appearance of “special someone” or a sense of loneliness or boredom still in each other’s company. Do not rush to make decisions better analyze the situation clearly, in complete calm, without anger or depression involved in the final verdict.

Let’s start by saying that the habit is synonymous with routine, a very dangerous factor in love. When the mystery, surprise, missing details, petting, pretty words and is only the commitment of being or having sex without interest through than just meet the couple, then at that point you are lost You can talk about usual. Continue reading “Keeping Feelings of the Couple to Keep Love”

Importance of Communication in Relationships

Importance of Communication in RelationshipsCommunication is essential to connect with your partner and achieve greater sexual pleasure. Therefore, before you say something that can ruin or destroy the desire we share 3 things you should not say before sex.

Before discussing some important issues of sexuality, it is important reflections take your partner how to avoid a bad impression or attitude.

1. Make an extreme proposal. Direct and abruptly tell your partner you want to have an extreme or unusual with it probably a way to coerce or frighten experience.

Your partner will feel depressed and conflict. It is best that you start a conversation rather than convince. This helps to greater understanding of how these experiences are a way to connect and no control, suggests Arlene Goldman, sex therapist in Philadelphia, United States.

2. Ask ETS test. Arlene Goldman is important to have this information for security, however, the difference is in how the Planes.

It is better tell who want to get tested for sexually transmitted disease (STD) to show that there’s nothing to worry about; Also ask if you want it done to you. This builds confidence and avoid uncomfortable situations. Continue reading “Importance of Communication in Relationships”

The use of Mobile phones affect the Relationship lover

The use of Mobile phones affect the Relationship loverAccording to Matthias Bonanni, psychiatrist and director of the Institute of Applied Clinical Neurosciences (INAC), Argentina medical, technology can be a contributing factor or hindering communication with partners and other relationships.

As far as possible

But beyond that’re connected all the time, the mere presence of a Smartphone on the table could make you disconnectors while chatting with a person and hinder the empathy, the study of the School of Public and International Affairs, Virginia Tech .

The researchers examined how digital stimuli damage the character and depth of face-to-face interactions. They point out that effectively, on the one hand, being “online” helps manage new relationships at work or with family.

But his presence, people have the constant need to search for information, find communication in social networks, and direct your thoughts to other people and worlds. Continue reading “The use of Mobile phones affect the Relationship lover”

Enjoy the Satisfaction when Dealing with a Partner

Enjoy the Satisfaction when Dealing with a PartnerFor those feminists who believe in complacency and unnecessity having a partner, and for those men who believe in the stereotypes of the 50s yes. Women like sex and combines more, so enjoy.

What is the origin of this myth? It is believed that since the creation of the stereotype that women, when they are no longer attracted to married her husband, and sexual relations are finished. For which the consequence is that man seeks satisfaction elsewhere.

As it is totally false, since various magazines, including Cosmopolitan, demonstrated in over a thousand ways they do like and enjoy it as both men and maybe even more.

So leave behind this myth, not only because it is not true, but because it is wrong to think that a woman is easy or taken for life just because she likes sex. But OJO !, I not saying it’s right to have relations with anyone who crosses him, just because you like.

Emotional blackmail is Characterized by Psychological Violence

Emotional blackmail is Characterized by Psychological ViolenceThere are cases occurring within the family, when one of the members crying, tantrums, etc., to cause shame or sorrow, and achieve their goals.

In relationships, emotional blackmail is generated through manipulation, threats, abuse and insults. This is done with the express purpose of punishing the “other” if you do not get what you want. Many people access to blackmail and accept any conditions for fear of being abandoned.

How to identify a blackmailer?

The main feature is that you never want to agree or give a little to establish a middle ground that benefits the relationship. Basically, these people do not care about your partner, only care about their own welfare and in control of the relationship. The blackmailer identifies vulnerable parts of your partner to manipulate and force him to do things he dislikes. Continue reading “Emotional blackmail is Characterized by Psychological Violence”

Family became a Fundamental element in Society

Family became a Fundamental element in SocietyWithin it we form as citizens, since that is our primary group, ie, one in which the individual acquires identity, learn to love and be loved, discover who based on their physical and psychological characteristics, assumed roles behavior, habits creates, communicates and sets standards for their relationships.

The rule is that both parents are group leaders, they are responsible for providing principles and values in parenting. But unfortunately, that pattern has deteriorated.

Now we see the rise of families without a father figure, lack of respect between parents and children and the number of young disoriented appear as consequences of the destruction of the traditional model. Continue reading “Family became a Fundamental element in Society”