In some cases strengthens the relationship, but in other routine wear and leads to the rupture. It happens that at some point come to think if the feeling that holds them together is love or habit, a normal confusion even in the most stable couples.
The reasons vary to think about it, is suddenly the appearance of “special someone” or a sense of loneliness or boredom still in each other’s company. Do not rush to make decisions better analyze the situation clearly, in complete calm, without anger or depression involved in the final verdict.
Let’s start by saying that the habit is synonymous with routine, a very dangerous factor in love. When the mystery, surprise, missing details, petting, pretty words and is only the commitment of being or having sex without interest through than just meet the couple, then at that point you are lost You can talk about usual. Continue reading
The difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection to have sex, better known as erectile dysfunction is the greatest fear of men when satisfy your partner. They do not like to talk about it, it’s a taboo that affects their pride mere “macho” and therefore prefer to keep hidden for fear of public ridicule.
An erection occurs when a series of brain impulses that begin in the brain develop; from there to the spine; then they reach the penis, muscles, tissues, veins and arteries.
Nerve impulses cause the muscles of the penis relax, blood enters the tissue and immediately: the member is inflated. Without this process the erection is not met.
The causes can be psychological or physical. Diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis, low testosterone levels, multiple sclerosis, are some of the conditions that may influence. To that list excessive consumption of alcohol or smoking, stress and fatigue adds. Continue reading
Recent studies show that people who start having sex at an early age are more likely to keep casual sex, ie with a partner who is not a committed relationship with a partner, suggests research No Strings Attached: The Nature of Casual Sex in College Students published on the website of The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS).
Research shows that 70-85% of sexual experiences reported by American teenagers, between 12 and 21 years of age, are the casual type.
Gender differences are a major factor according to the authors of the research, Catherine Grello, Deborah Welsh and Melinda S. Harper. “There is abundant evidence that men have more casual sex more often than women. Instead, women tend to have sexual behaviors where they believe they are fulfilling your partner’s needs and provide care and comfort “
Out of many psychological factors, it seems that women with self-esteem problems and symptoms of depression are more likely to engage in this type of sex with partners without a deep commitment. A greater number of sexual partners, the number of depressive symptoms increases. Continue reading
When you have been sexually active you stop enjoying for several years, the body suffers the effects of sex in the body, creating risks of stroke, this because sexual activity is one of the best cardiovascular exercises that can be practiced, They say researchers at Tufts University in Massachusetts, USA.
This practice is excellent generator immunoglobulin A (IgA); sexual frequency at least twice a week, increased to 30% of the antibody levels found in saliva and mucous body, protecting same against colds and other infections.
For men, stop having sex is a risk factor for developing prostate cancer, since research confirms that ejaculate frequently, five times a week, has a preventive effect in men 20 to 50 years.
It inhibits some brain functions
There are specific areas in the brain involved in sexual behavior causing the sensation of well-being for all the hormones secreted therefore to inactivity stop producing such substances which affect mood, memory and decision making. Continue reading
Communication is essential to connect with your partner and achieve greater sexual pleasure. Therefore, before you say something that can ruin or destroy the desire we share 3 things you should not say before sex.
Before discussing some important issues of sexuality, it is important reflections take your partner how to avoid a bad impression or attitude.
1. Make an extreme proposal. Direct and abruptly tell your partner you want to have an extreme or unusual with it probably a way to coerce or frighten experience.
Your partner will feel depressed and conflict. It is best that you start a conversation rather than convince. This helps to greater understanding of how these experiences are a way to connect and no control, suggests Arlene Goldman, sex therapist in Philadelphia, United States.
2. Ask ETS test. Arlene Goldman is important to have this information for security, however, the difference is in how the Planes.
It is better tell who want to get tested for sexually transmitted disease (STD) to show that there’s nothing to worry about; Also ask if you want it done to you. This builds confidence and avoid uncomfortable situations. Continue reading
According to Matthias Bonanni, psychiatrist and director of the Institute of Applied Clinical Neurosciences (INAC), Argentina medical, technology can be a contributing factor or hindering communication with partners and other relationships.
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But beyond that’re connected all the time, the mere presence of a Smartphone on the table could make you disconnectors while chatting with a person and hinder the empathy, the study of the School of Public and International Affairs, Virginia Tech .
The researchers examined how digital stimuli damage the character and depth of face-to-face interactions. They point out that effectively, on the one hand, being “online” helps manage new relationships at work or with family.
But his presence, people have the constant need to search for information, find communication in social networks, and direct your thoughts to other people and worlds. Continue reading
For those feminists who believe in complacency and unnecessity having a partner, and for those men who believe in the stereotypes of the 50s yes. Women like sex and combines more, so enjoy.
What is the origin of this myth? It is believed that since the creation of the stereotype that women, when they are no longer attracted to married her husband, and sexual relations are finished. For which the consequence is that man seeks satisfaction elsewhere.
As it is totally false, since various magazines, including Cosmopolitan, demonstrated in over a thousand ways they do like and enjoy it as both men and maybe even more.
So leave behind this myth, not only because it is not true, but because it is wrong to think that a woman is easy or taken for life just because she likes sex. But OJO !, I not saying it’s right to have relations with anyone who crosses him, just because you like.
Former Venezuelan model Jenny Patrizia, who since age 12 lives in California, presents his first book in Spanish entitled “Come sexy, lose weight.” The text is divided in 21 slimming recipes based on ingredients that increase sexual desire.
His research coach extracted certain related increased libido foods produce sex hormones, therefore are more frequent intimate relationships with partners and the whole body changes favorably.
Former Miss California felt interest in nutrition science because while studying psychology at the University of California, one of her friends died of anorexia. So he decided to graduate in both races and now, at 37 years, three books on nutrition of authorship: the English version of “Come sexy, lose weight” (“Eat Sexy, Lose Weight”) and “69 Quickie Meals “.
In this new proposal the author statement that “sex and diet should go hand in hand” and does know by simply reading the text content.
Some people have difficulty achieving orgasm. Dr. Juan Luis Alvarez-Gayou, director of the Institute Mexicano AC Sexuality explained to Salud180 some techniques that women can practice having an orgasm.
According to information posted on the website of the School of Advanced Studies Acatlan, there are other ways to achieve it, such as:
Masturbation: It is a very common way to enjoy sexual pleasure. You can share it with your partner while hugging, kissing or look. Masturbate together can deepen intimacy with your partner and climax.
Erotic massage: Excites the others body through massage. Use your hands, body or mouth to excite sexual organs and make you have an orgasm.
Rubbing the body: it Do it especially sexual organs, will help them get intense pleasure and orgasm.
Although all the above aspects are important, communication with your partner is essential to transmit him how you like to be stimulated and so you concentrate on the erotic sensations.
There are cases occurring within the family, when one of the members crying, tantrums, etc., to cause shame or sorrow, and achieve their goals.
In relationships, emotional blackmail is generated through manipulation, threats, abuse and insults. This is done with the express purpose of punishing the “other” if you do not get what you want. Many people access to blackmail and accept any conditions for fear of being abandoned.
How to identify a blackmailer?
The main feature is that you never want to agree or give a little to establish a middle ground that benefits the relationship. Basically, these people do not care about your partner, only care about their own welfare and in control of the relationship. The blackmailer identifies vulnerable parts of your partner to manipulate and force him to do things he dislikes. Continue reading